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Blocked by your

past difficult painful relationships?

Your Relationships

The biggest secret that's blocking you from success.

Nothing else seems to go right when something is not right in our relationships.

We feel uncomfortable within ourselves when there are unresolved feelings from a past or present relationship. This feeling spills into all other areas of our lives, affects our relationships, and hinders our careers and finances.

Fixing our relationship problems is the secret key to unlocking our success.

The difference

Does Any Of This Sound Like You?

You can’t get over the guilt of breaking someone’s heart.
You worry that you’re blocked in life because of something bad you did to someone in the past.
Your guilt about past relationship mistakes is paralyzing you.
You are particularly sensitive to someone’s mean comments towards you, sometimes to the point of feeling traumatised by it.
You know you need to end a toxic relationship but don’t know how.
Fights or breakups send you off into self- destructive spirals.

I Hear You!

You’re not alone and it’s completely normal. I’ve been there myself and I know how painful it can be.

That’s why I’ve created this simple Relationship Release Quiz to help you identify the particular relationships that are hurting you the most and keeping you stuck, so you can heal them and begin to move forward in your life right now.

The power is in the process.

We often don’t realise that the powerful subconscious feelings that are running our lives originated within our relationships. Feelings like guilt, shame, and fear. My unique process outs those hidden feelings and gives you back the power to direct your life on your terms.

The Key

Relationships Are Everything.

Humans make sense of this world through their relationships.

Our very first relationships write the blueprint of how we’re going to look at the world for the rest of our lives.

“We give meaning to our lives through our relationships.”

That very first breakup we had with your high school sweetheart will write the script of how we deal with heartbreak for years to come and may affect who we end up marrying and why.

The very first time our schoolteacher humiliated us in class will dictate our relationships with our future bosses and whether that’s a harmonious one or a confrontational one.

The first time we get cut off by our best friend will destroy our trust in friendships with other women and might prevent us from making a best friend ever again.

“Brick by brick we build a house. Friend by friend we go through life.”

Going back even further, our relationship with our mother taught our infant self about how safe or unsafe the world is. The relationship with our father painted the picture of what success means to us.

We are subconsciously ruled by these relationships until we can become aware of them.

“We end up defining our entire life and all of our failures with these meanings.”

We carry the guilt and shame from past mistakes with us and they manifest in other areas of our lives like our careers and our finances.

We carry anger and pain from past hurts and they burst out from within uncontrollably and try to ruin our lives.

You don’t have to be controlled by the ghosts of these powerful feelings from past relationships anymore. How do I know? Because I’ve done it.

You can free the incredible amount of energy that these feelings are still taking up in your life.

Just imagine where this energy will flow once it’s free and all the incredible things you will finally accomplish.

The first step is to identify which relationships are underneath these painful feelings that are secretly running your life. The second step is to fix those relationships and unblock your life.

So, let’s dive in and find out which relationships are keeping you stuck.

My unique process in this free Relationship Release Quiz will reveal this to you.

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Want To Go Deeper?

Awesome!

If you’ve had some revelations and surprising realizations while doing this quiz, I’m excited for you.

Without those realizations, you might be churning over the “what went wrong-s” and “I’m so horrible for having done that to him-s” again and again.

An enormous amount of your emotional energy might continue to stay stuck in these feelings and continue keeping you from moving forward in your new relationships.

They may continue to block you in your relationship with people, with money, with your career, your business, and your accomplishing what you were born to accomplish in this life.

If you want to go even deeper into these relationships and get my personal help in mapping out a strategy to fix them, why not apply for a Free Family Constellation Reading with me?

Every month I offer limited opportunities to work with me personally for free (absolutely no strings attached) to help you identify using Your Unique Family Constellation who from your past & present is holding you back in business.

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“I absolutely recommend Ritu. I found understanding my family and their patterns helped me see myself differently and with more compassion for my mistakes.”
Abida RahmanSELF AWARENESS COACH AND FOUNDER OF THEBALANCINGGURU.COM

“Ritu is like a ray of sunlight! Her dedication to personal growth and to helping others live happier lives is inspiring. Her positive energy is contagious, and I always feel more hopeful and uplifted after spending time with her.”
Jenny SansouciBestselling Author of The Rebel’s Apothecary, Founder of HealthyCrush.com

My Short Story

For years I had been haunted by old relationships and mistakes I’ve made in the past.

As a teenager, I had cheated on and broken my high school sweetheart’s heart and the guilt stayed with me for more than 20 years, sabotaging all my future relationships.

In my 20s, I experienced painful breakups with my boyfriend and also with my best girlfriend, making me terrified of entering a new relationship with men and new friendships with women.

In my 30s, I realised that these “mistakes” and painful relationships were holding me back not only in my new relationships but also in my career and finances, and even in my new role as a mum.

Now, in my almost 40s, after facing the ghosts of my past relationships and healing them, I finally moved forward. I got over my fear of commitment, started a family, and became self-employed.

It’s possible for you too.

I’m here to personally be by your side as you revisit those people and heal those painful relationships, step by step.

You don’t have to do it alone.

Once you unlock the enormous powerhouse of energy these old relationships are taking up, where will that energy flow?

Let’s find out! Apply for a Free Family Constellation Reading now.

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Ritu’s Bio

Ritu Riedweg is a Family Constellations Therapist specializing in relationship healing for women, couples, friendships, & families. Originally born in Bangladesh, she grew up in Canada and now lives in Zürich, Switzerland with her husband and two kids, aged 4 and 1 1/2.

Books turn her on more than anything else in the world and she’s a strong believer in EHFAR: Everything Happens For A Reason. Her personal struggles that she has overcome include: coming from a broken family, moving homes and sometimes countries every 4 years in childhood, culture shock and homesickness since moving to Switzerland, depression, and post-partum anxiety. She has adult ADHD and identifies as a Highly Sensitive Person.