I’m constantly in longing. I’m always missing. When I’m not around my loved ones, I always want to be with them and that’s a bit difficult right now because I’m on the other side of the planet from them.
What is it about needing to “hear from people”? Is there a spiritual side to this? I think so. After reading A Course in Miracles and The Disappearance of the Universe, I think maybe we yearn to hear from God all the time because we aren’t convinced that he remembers us. That’s why we yearn to hear from people all the time because we aren’t convinced that they remember us too.[blockquote_left] [themecolor]We just are in constant “forgettance” or ignorance of it. [/themecolor][/blockquote_left] But whats the point of being remembered anyway? Isn’t it more important that WE are the ones doing the remembering? Isn’t it more important that We think of others than them thinking of us? Maybe in reality our beloveds are always thinking of us, they are always WITH us. We just are in constant “forgettance” or ignorance of it.
Why is it important to hear from people?
This is important for us so that we can believe and trust that we are not ignored by them. So we trust that we are not ignored by their thoughts and forgotten about completely. So we trust that they have not forgotten about our existent. So we trust that they are aware of us, constantly.
What can you do to get over your dependence on being in constant contact with someone?
What can we do about this obsession of hearing from people? [themecolor]Well we can trust. [/themecolor]
We can trust that they are not ignoring us.
We can trust that they are not forgetting about us.
We can trust they are always aware of us.
We. Can. Trust.
We don’t have to take their word for it. We can take OUR word for it. We can accept it when we don’t hear from them because we know that they are aware of us. All the time. Always.
Let’s stop depending on “hearing” from people all the time. Let’s trust that they are aware of us even when they are not in contact with us. Let us trust that the Universe and everything in it is aware of us even when we don’t “hear” from it in the form of signs.
Let go of the obsession of constantly hearing from someone and the sadness that goes hand in hand with it when you don’t hear from them. Because whether you know it or not, you are in their awareness.